
John the Baptist shows us how we can prepare for Jesus. First, we lean into the truth that every good thing we have originated from God, not ourselves, because even our very selves came from him. Second, we allow our life to be about Jesus, rather than ourselves. He must become the hero of our life’s story. Third, we allow the life of Jesus to gain greater and greater power within us, while we surrender ourselves to him.
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22 Then Jesus and his disciples left Jerusalem and went into the Judean countryside. Jesus spent some time with them there, baptizing people.
23 At this time John the Baptist was baptizing at Aenon, near Salim, because there was plenty of water there; and people kept coming to him for baptism. 24 (This was before John was thrown into prison.) 25 A debate broke out between John’s disciples and a certain Jew over ceremonial cleansing. 26 So John’s disciples came to him and said, “Rabbi, the man you met on the other side of the Jordan River, the one you identified as the Messiah, is also baptizing people. And everybody is going to him instead of coming to us.”
27 John replied, “No one can receive anything unless God gives it from heaven. 28 You yourselves know how plainly I told you, ‘I am not the Messiah. I am only here to prepare the way for him.’ 29 It is the bridegroom who marries the bride, and the bridegroom’s friend is simply glad to stand with him and hear his vows. Therefore, I am filled with joy at his success. 30 He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less.
31 “He has come from above and is greater than anyone else. We are of the earth, and we speak of earthly things, but he has come from heaven and is greater than anyone else. 32 He testifies about what he has seen and heard, but how few believe what he tells them! 33 Anyone who accepts his testimony can affirm that God is true. 34 For he is sent by God. He speaks God’s words, for God gives him the Spirit without limit. 35 The Father loves his Son and has put everything into his hands. 36 And anyone who believes in God’s Son has eternal life. Anyone who doesn’t obey the Son will never experience eternal life but remains under God’s angry judgment.” John 3:22-36, NLT
As we prepare to celebrate the time when Jesus first came to earth, and also for the time when he will return, this little passage from John gives us some practical advice for our preparations.
We need just a bit of background here. During the years before Jesus began his ministry, John the Baptist was a major figure of influence for first century Judaism. Thousands of people made the difficult, expensive and dangerous journey from Jerusalem to the Jordan valley to hear John preach. Even decades after his death, there were people who practiced their Jewish religion explicitly as followers of John the Baptist. To make it simple: John the Baptist was a Big Deal.
John’s followers knew he was a big deal, so they were upset when they saw that John’s cousin, Jesus, was also becoming a big deal. It isn’t hard to picture a note of complaint or bitterness in their words. They are upset, and they feel that Jesus should not be so prominent. It should be John, they think.
Jesus said at another time that John was the greatest man who had ever been born (Luke 7:28). Here, John’s response to his disciples shows us some of his greatness. He makes three basic points.
First, John says, no one receives anything unless it has been given to him by God. He means that he himself received his ministry from God. It isn’t his, it comes from God. Because it isn’t his, he does not feel either the need, nor the right, to hold on to it. He also means that Jesus is gaining followers because that is God’s plan. He and Jesus are on the same team, and God the father is the coach of both, calling the plays. Jealousy and rivalry have absolutely no place. It isn’t John’s team – it’s God’s.
Next, John tells his followers that they ought to know better. After all, he’s already told them that he personally is not the messiah, and he has already explicitly pointed his followers to Jesus as the messiah. In fact, John was so emphatic about pointing them to Jesus, that they remembered it when they came to complain to John. They identify Jesus as “the one you testified about (3:26).” John clarifies his position even more now. He explains that he is “the friend of the bridegroom,” not the bridegroom himself.
For the average first century Jewish person, the best day they ever experienced was the day of their own wedding feast. The people were dust-poor, with little hope for anything to change. But on her wedding day, for once in her life, a woman was (along with her bridegroom) the center of attention. She didn’t have to work. She got to wear the most beautiful clothing and jewelry that her family could afford. She got to eat as much wonderful food as she could hold. The same was true of course, for the men on their wedding days. In fact, the bride and groom usually wore some sort of “crown” indicating that for that day, they were the “king” and “queen.”
In Jewish culture, the friend of the bridegroom made many of the arrangements involved in the wedding, including making sure the bride got there. But the wedding is not about the friend. The center of the wedding, what it is all about, is the bridegroom and the bride. John also adds that a wedding is a joyous occasion, and he is in fact joyful that Jesus, the main guy, the bridegroom, is finally there and the celebration is soon to begin. He is happy that Jesus is getting more followers. Basically he is saying to his disciples, “shame on you. It isn’t about us – it is about Him.”
Finally, John offers one of the statements that shows him to be a great man. He says, “He must increase, but I must decrease.” That is one of the greatest declarations of faith in the New Testament. It shows that John believes Jesus is who he claims to be. He trusts him to the point of giving up his entire life’s work and mission, which he has been focused on since before he was even born. He is so committed to Jesus that he will let his own life and work diminish so that the Life and Work of Jesus can shine in greater and greater measure.
There are no punctuation marks in ancient Greek, and precious few paragraph divisions, so it is a bit tricky knowing who spoke the next section (3:31-36). My best guess is that John the Baptist spoke verse 31 because it seems to go with what he is saying. Jesus is supposed to increase, he (the Baptist) is supposed to decrease. This is because Jesus is from above, and is above all. He speaks in heavenly terms, unlike John the Baptist, a mere human, who must use earthly terms.
In my opinion, John the gospel-writer adds the next section, reiterating what he heard Jesus say to Nicodemus: Jesus is from heaven, and speaks eternal, heavenly truths, because all the fullness of God the Father is in him too. The one who accepts Jesus has eternal life, and the one who refuses to believe in the Son will not see life; instead, the wrath of God remains on him.
So, what does all this mean for you and I, during Advent this year? Why does it matter what John the Baptist said? How does it affect us? I think the same three points that John the Baptist made must become reality to us, in our lives.
First, we have nothing that has not been given to us. If you receive any benefit from my preaching or writing, I guarantee you, it didn’t come from me. It comes from the Lord. I have nothing to offer anyone that is worthwhile, except what the Lord has given me. The same is true of you. You have nothing worthwhile that did not come from God. I guess what I’m saying, is that we need to get over ourselves. Once we have accepted Jesus, we play on God’s team. It isn’t our team. I’m reminded of the time Joshua, leading the people of Israel, came upon a man with a drawn sword. Joshua asked him:
“Are you for us or for our enemies?”
“Neither,” he replied. “It is as commander of the Lord’s army that I now come.” (Joshua 5:13-14)
Get off your own side and onto God’s. God is the commander here. All the resources that you think are yours, are not. They come from God. Use them accordingly.
Second, you aren’t the bridegroom (neither am I)! In other words, this life is not about you. This is all about Jesus. We can rejoice with him, and be filled with his joy, but this isn’t our moment, our life – it is his. He is the main figure in this drama. He is the bridegroom. We are the joyful friends, yes – joyful with his joy. Applying this to Christmas, maybe I need to stop trying to get something out of this season, and instead, simply rejoice about how Jesus is glorified during this time of year.
I think this is one of the keys to joy – stop making yourself the central figure in your life. Or, maybe you need to stop making another person the central figure in your life. The way to joy is to allow Jesus to be the protagonist in your life’s story. Let him be the main character. Let him be the one that the story of your life is about. I think it is much easier to sustain joy when your life is not about you, and it isn’t about your kids or spouse or any other human being either. Joy surprises us when we let Jesus be the main character in our life’s story. Think of it this way: it can be hard to be joyful at a friend’s wedding if you are mainly thinking about yourself. After all, someone else is the center of attention. But when you accept that your place is not at the center of attention, and if you are thinking about your friend and the joy that is in his life at the moment, you find it easy to rejoice, and the whole wedding can be a wonderful experience, even though you are neither the bride nor the groom.
Third, and this follows from the other two, let your own ambitions, desires and troubles decrease in importance, as the Life and Work of Jesus increase in your heart. What John the Baptist expressed about the influence of his ministry, is supposed to be true for all of us, about our lives. My hope and prayer is that the older I get, the less people see of Tom and the more they see of Jesus. I don’t mean I want to lose my uniqueness and personality. God gave me those. But he gave them to me so that Jesus could express his life through me in a unique way. Paul says it like this:
I have been crucified with Christ; 20 and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the flesh, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me. (Galatians 2:19-21)
He says something similar in Colossians 3:1-4.
So if you have been raised with the Messiah, seek what is above, where the Messiah is, seated at the right hand of God. 2 Set your minds on what is above, not on what is on the earth. 3 For you have died, and your life is hidden with the Messiah in God. 4 When the Messiah, who is your life, is revealed, then you also will be revealed with Him in glory.
Our true life is hidden right now, kept for us with Jesus in heaven. In the meantime, his desire is to increase his life in and through us. He wants to tell the story of His lifethrough our unique gifts and personalities (given to us from above). The story gets more and more clear as we allow our self-centered-ness to decrease and His Life to increase.
Now, when John the Baptist put this into action, it upset some of those around him. They didn’t understand. Maybe he was getting too fanatical, too religious. He gently explained to them, but he didn’t let those voices of opposition stop the Life of Jesus from increasing in him. We need to follow his example. A lot of voices will object to you if you start living out these three truths. But don’t let them dissuade you, scare you or stop you.
What is your life all about right now? Making a living? Staying a afloat? Having fun? It may even seem like something noble, such as, “raising my kids,” or “being a good husband.” Those are great. Don’t stop striving for them. But they can’t be what your life is about. You won’t find joy that way. Your life is supposed to be not the story of you, but the story of Jesus, told through your uniqueness. John the Baptist was a great man because he recognized this, and lived it. With the help of the Holy Spirit, we can be great in that same way. It may be one of the best ways we can learn to prepare for his return.

